There are many decisions to be made at a time when people may be feeling overwhelmed and fraught.
It is not uncommon for executors to fall out during this time, which is the last thing the deceased would have wanted.
People may feel that the other executor(s) are not acting in the most beneficial way, or that they are taking over or not sharing information.
Some of the administration tasks and problems that can arise
One of the main jobs after someone’s death is often to clear their property, dispose of their personal effects and put the house up for sale. Selling a home frequently causes friction, even in ordinary circumstances, and when it closely follows a death then emotions can run high.
There are also choices to be made over payments of expenses, who should be allowed to buy assets such as property or valuables, agreeing on valuations and closing or moving bank accounts. One executor may want to hold on to any property until the market improves, while another may want to sell straight away.
The process itself always takes a long time, which can be a source of frustration.
Maintaining a good relationship between executors
One of the key ways to maintain a good relationship between executors is to communicate as much as possible. If something has caused a delay, make sure everyone knows why and that it is unavoidable. If different valuations have been received, make sure the situation is talked through and try and take everyone’s point of view into account.
Stepping aside as an executor
If an executor does not want to act, it is possible to stand down before administration begins. They can either renounce the role permanently or ask for their power to be reserved, which could allow them to apply to court to become an executor at a later date.
If the relationship between executors breaks down completely, it is possible for one of them to apply to the court to have another removed, which the court might do if it believes this is in the best interests of the estate. There is then the option for a new appointment to be made.
Avoiding conflict in estate administration
It is possible to request a professional executor when drawing up your Will. This means that an expert probate lawyer will act as your executor. The advantage of this is that they are experienced in dealing with probate and will also act impartially. It can minimise delay and reassure everyone involved that the estate’s best interests are being observed.
To talk to one of our probate specialists ring us on 01634 353 658 or email us at rob@pembrokewillwriters.com.